Shared costs for co-parents, kept fair and clear.
One shared ledger for the expenses you split after a separation — so nobody has to keep score in text messages.
Balance with Sam
Sam owes you €197.00
Sam recorded repaying you €50.00, waiting for your confirmation.
- Swimming lessons50/50€180.00
- DentistDisputed40/60€95.00
- School trip60/40€125.00
How it works
Three steps, and both of you see every one of them.
- 1
Record what you paid
Drop in the receipt and parita fills in the amount, date and description. Pick the split you agreed on, and the other parent's share is saved with the expense.
- 2
Settle up in one go
Select the open expenses, whichever of you paid them. parita nets them into a single amount, so you know exactly who owes whom.
- 3
Both of you confirm
The parent who owes records the repayment, and the other confirms they received it. Only then does it leave the balance.
Built for two households
Made for the costs two households share, and nothing in it takes sides.
Receipts attached
Photos or PDFs from your phone, your computer or your Dropbox, so the other parent can see what they are paying for.
Your split rules
50/50, 60/40, or any percentage you agreed. Give a category its own rule, and later changes never rewrite past expenses.
Disputes, not arguments
Question a wrong amount or a missing receipt with a reason. The expense waits until it is fixed or the dispute is withdrawn.
One balance, one ledger
The same figures on both sides: every expense and confirmed repayment, with a running balance.
Nothing quietly rewritten
Every change is logged, and the other parent is notified in the app and by email.
English and French
Each parent uses parita in their own language, and emails reach each of you in yours.
Private between the two of you
A family in parita has exactly two members. What you record is for the other parent's eyes and nobody else's.
Read the privacy policy- Only the two parents of a family can see its expenses, receipts and notes.
- parita never touches your money: it isn't connected to your bank, it only keeps the record.
- Receipts sit in a private store, opened only through short-lived links.
Questions parents ask
What to expect before you invite the other parent.
- Who can see what I record?
- Only the two parents of your family. Each family in parita has exactly two members, and each of you sees the same expenses, receipts, notes and balance.
- How does the other parent join?
- You create your family and invite them by email. They sign in with the link parita sends them or with their Google account, and from then on you share one ledger.
- What if we disagree about an expense?
- The other parent can dispute it and say why, such as a wrong amount or a missing receipt. It still counts toward the balance, but it can't be repaid until it's fixed, voided or the dispute is withdrawn.
- Does parita move money between us?
- No. You pay each other the way you already do. The parent who owes records the repayment in parita, and the other confirms they received it.
- Can we change our split later?
- Yes. Split rules are yours to edit, and the other parent's share is saved with each expense, so a new rule never rewrites past expenses.
- Does parita replace our custody or support agreement?
- No. parita is a bookkeeping tool: it applies the split you record and keeps both of you looking at the same figures. It isn't legal or financial advice.
Start your shared ledger
Create your family, invite the other parent by email, and add your first expense.
Get started